Fear of losing everything?

Hey,

It’s Alex.

One of the biggest fears business owners will EVER have is…

… The fear of losing EVERYTHING.

Do you feel that way sometimes?

If you do, then this short email will show you how to get out of it almost immediately and without having to “RESET” your thinking with:

• Going to sleep

• Alcohol

• Or distracting yourself with Netflix or gaming.

The best way to explain this would be to take you back with me to 2012…

When I was 23, broke and thinking of how to pay my next month’s rent.

Four young and silly solopreneurs break into a library and plan to make millions while asking Mom for money to pay for the bus.

My 3 friends and I decided that we wanted to be entrepreneurs…

… And since we had no office to work from?

We’d sneak into the public university every morning while convincing the guard that we were real students.

Sometimes it worked.

And sometimes?

We’d have to climb over the fence.

Fun times. But anyway…

This is not about that.

But we still needed to pay the rent somehow. It was a Thursday, 3 days before I needed to pay my rent.

I had $7.56 in my bank account. 

I barged into the library while my three friends were already there and shouted:

“I’m done! I’m going to look for a job!”

• David was sitting there with a banana in his mouth.

• Eddy was looking at his shoelaces (as he’d do most of the time)

• And George was just sitting there… Angry. 

My biggest fear was losing the “status” of being a “solopreneur.”

I felt like I was one step away from losing it all.

But…

A magical thing happened.

The moment I shared my fears with my friends? We started talking. Exploring options. Thinking about what we CAN do and not why life is awful.

Spoiler: I was able to pay that month’s rent. And the next 135 months, too 🙂

But…

Years later?

I’ve gotten my coaching certification, and I can finally explain to myself (and you) what happened there and how I got out of that sticky feeling.

See…

Here’s the secret:

When that feeling starts waking up inside of you…

It can come from anything. Even a thought.

That feeling of:

• Fear

• You’ll lose everything

• You won’t have enough money

• You will be poor again and will have to do uncomfortable things…

When that feeling arises?

DO NOT STAY WITH IT ALONE.

• Send that message.

• Share it with your spouse.

• Call a friend.

… Just tell them how you feel.

Just by the fact that you’re communicating with someone, hopefully, someone you know, someone who loves you…

That person sees and knows things about you. Good things. Things that you can’t think of by yourself in that moment.

And that?

That SNAPS YOU OUT of that place, that feeling, that negativity, overthinking.

That puts you in a neutral place.

Now… You can look at that situation from a different perspective.

A perspective you couldn’t see before.

And that?

That allows you to get out of that feeling.

… For now.

Until it comes again.

But here’s the thing.

The fear is just a symptom. It’s a signal.

A signal that something is bothering you inside.

And once you figure out that thing inside of you? That feeling will be mostly gone.

And even when it arises again? You’ll be able to handle it with much more calmness and it won’t consume your life like it does now.

It will just be another moment in life. Not a tragedy.

And if that’s something you’d like to achieve?

Consider allowing me to help.

I can help you find the core of the problem and solve it together with you, instead of focusing on the symptoms.

So…

If you’d like to get rid of this awful feeling and not let it control your life…

Consider going through some coaching with me.

Interested?

Reply “I’m in” and here’s what’s gonna happen:

1. You reply you’re interested

2. I ask you a question

3. You answer

4. I send you some details…

And we start working together and you’ll finally start to see a change.

So reply, “I’m in” right now.

Take care,

Alex